A Gentleman and A Lady - Part Two

As I said in this post, I recently read this blog post about how to decide if you are dating a real man or a boy. It gave 10 key points on how a real man would treat his lady, and I fell in love with it. Because ever single women deserves to have a ‘real man’ in her life; someone who knows how to treat a lady and the relationship they have together. This got me thinking though, what about a woman. What kind of qualities should a women posses to be a ‘keeper’ in a man’s eyes. A Gentleman and A Lady, part two.

10 WAYS TO KNOW YOUR WOMAN IS A KEEPER

A man wants a catch, the one he couldn’t possibly let go. The one he would do anything to reel in. So here are 10 signs to look to know that you have a lady and a keeper. This was obviously wrote by a man, which is what I love truthfully. A real man knows what he wants in a woman and these are amazing qualities in a woman. I added my own two cents in their though, so if you want to read the article in which I found this, then click here.

1. She doesn’t look for attention. A woman who doesn’t look for attention, are the women who are worth giving attention too. Women who are content with their own self confidence and don’t look elsewhere for validation, shine from within and will add to a man’s life.

2. She can hold a conversation.  Believe me; it is important to have physical attraction in a relationship, but it isn’t the most important when you’re talking about something that is long term.  A woman, who truly keeps your attention, makes you excited to see her, or just talk to her – every day- is one worth holding onto. A man wants a woman who is intelligent, well-spoken, witty, and funny with killer looks. No women is worth settling less for, not a single one.

3. She is comfortable in any situation. In a relationship you’re not going to be alone all the time. A man wants a woman who will be able to live life to the fullest, while they are by their sides all the time. Meaning, a man can bring you to any social event and leave you alone if he needed to go and talk to someone or grab a drink. He wants a woman who will be comfortable in any setting; family events, outings with friends, double dates, and even nights in.

4. She doesn’t start petty arguments. In a healthy relationship, two people should be able to work out their complications with mature conversations. A man wants a woman to not throw their past in their face or use it as ammunition against you, especially is she has already forgiven your for the mistake you made in your past. Relationships are never an easy road with no differences; when a woman can handle a conversation with maturity and work through the differences, she is a keeper.

5. She encourages you. A man wants a woman to stand behind him and encourage him to chase after his goals and dreams. Everyone in life will seem to lose their fire and drive at some points in life, when there is no one to share them with. You, should be, the first person he runs to when he has exciting news.

6. She is your sunshine on a gloomy day (and everyday). Are you excited to talk to her when you wake up first thing in the morning? Or kiss her on the forehead when you’re together? Does seeing her name pop up on your phone during a rough day make your forget about all of the worries of life? Does being with her take you into your own world where nothing else matters? If you said yes to all the above, hold on to that woman.

7. She puts in effort for you. (To me this is the same thing as #9 in the other post and I love this.) You have to put in effort for the relationship to last, both of you. Because a relationship isn’t about you, it’s about the person your with, and making them happy. Because seeing them happy will make you happy, and vice versa. Don’t stop the romance in your relationship. It can be as little as getting your nails and hair done, so you feel good, to look good for him. But it is more than that too, put in effort to make each other happy. Take time for each other.!

8. You can laugh together. Seriously, this is such a big one. A man wants a woman he can laugh with. Life needs laughter, love, and happiness; so does a relationship.

9. You can cry together. Not everything is sunshine and rainbows. Times will get tough, things will get hard, and you will need to be each other’s support team. You need to be there for him, and he needs to be there for you. You can feel stupid to cry in front of him, and he should be able to fully let loose and emotionally let go in front of you.

10. You have similar views for the future.  The future is there, whether you are ready for it or not. Your life should never be dictated by someone else. There are things that you want in your life and there are things he will want in his life. Are they the same? If you want the same thing in life, at the same time; great. If you don’t settle thinking he will just forget all about it, cause neither will you. Long term relationships are all about compromise, with that you will have a long and happy future.

Someday I will find my prince charming, whether that is today, tomorrow, or later in life. When that man walks into my life, I really will be grateful for these articles. Because it has opened up my eyes to what a good relationship should be like. I can say that I am grateful for all the bad relationships and relationships that just didn’t work out, because it will sure make me grateful for the day that a real man walks into my life and sweeps me off his feet. He will be my gentleman and I will be his lady.

James Michael Sama write some amazing posts, he gives different kind of advice and things that a man and a woman should take some time to read. Click here to check out his blog. This post was made all because of my love for the post that I came across.

A Gentleman and A Lady

I came across this article blog post about the 10 ways to know your dating a real man and I absolutely fell in love with it. I have had my fair share of ‘bad boys’ in my life and in all truth, I am ready to date someone who has the qualities of a ‘real’ man. Then this got me thinking; well what qualities does a girl posses to be a ‘keeper’ from a guys perspective. So I’m going to break down this little shindig into a two part series, A Gentleman and A Lady.

10 WAYS TO KNOW YOUR DATING A REAL MAN

 Because we all want a real man in our lives, not some silly boy.

1. A real man values more than just your looks. He will value your personality, kindness, intelligence, and who you are as a person in general; as well as the beauty he sees before his eyes. ß Nothing gets more old then the same compliment time after time, because all he can see is the beauty on the outside of you.
2. A real man will never be intimated by your motivation. He will have goals for himself, but he will want to be with a woman that has set goals in her life as well. He will never feel intimidated or threatened by a woman who goes after what she wants in life. ß He will stand by and support you throughout the process and steps in achieving your goal. He will not be that person who keeps you from pursuing your dreams.
3. A real man will have more interests than just you. Of course, you should be a priority in his life, but that doesn’t mean he shouldn’t have a life as well. He should have interests, friends, hobbies, goal, and aspirations. His life shouldn’t revolve his entire life around you. ß To value your time together, you value your time apart as well.
4. A real man will give you answers. No matter how awkward or uncomfortable a situation is, he will approach it, and you, with respect. He will not dance around answers or make excuses. If something needs to be talked about, between the two of you, he will be more than happy to explain the entire situation at hand. ß Yes.!
5. A real man is direct. He won’t play mind games or manipulation in your relationship. He will be direct, to the point, and honest with you; but he will do it with kindness too.  ß I always feel like someone is ashamed and hiding something, if they will not be direct and honest with you.
6. A real man will trust you. As long as you haven’t done anything to betray his trust, he will not be paranoid, or snoop around invading your privacy to make sure you’re not doing anything ‘bad’. He will be confidant in the relationship that you two have together.  ß In my eyes a relationship is build on a foundation of trust.
7. A real man is cool, calm, and collect. It should be understood that part of what comes with having a girlfriends, is dealing with her getting hit on. It doesn’t matter if you’re out with friends together, at dinner, or even out with her friends; she will at some point in time be hit on. Instead of letting his primate instincts prevail and beating his chest like an angry gorilla to scare off competition, a confident man will calmly make his position known, and understand that you’re still going home with him at the end of the night. ß I love that part of his section.!
8. A real man will show you respect. Nothing signifies an empty shell of a man more than someone who disrespects women, animals, or children. A real man will treat you with respect that you deserve, never force you to do anything you’re uncomfortable with, and never mistreat you. ß I believe this to be so true.
9. A  real man will put effort into your relationship. Boys are generally apathetic and just looking for one thing from a woman. A man will do what it takes to make you happy, both inside and outside of the bedroom. Your happiness, is his reward. ß Because a relationship isn’t about you, your happiness, your wants; it’s about wanting to make that person happy and do everything in your power to make his/her life wonderful.
10. A real man will make you be the best version of yourself, without changing who you really are. He will strive for greatness and therefore inspire others to strive for it as well. As Mark Twain said – Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. ß Perfectly said.

James Michael Sama has an amazing blog with so many interesting blog posts about life in general and I have really loved reading his stuff. Click here if you would like to check it out. 

Words of Wisdom

Happy Hump Day Ladies and Gents.

Soo,, for Words of Wisdom today,

I found this quote via Pinterest and really like it.

I love that it hit what I believe right on the head.

The person you are now, is because of the person you have been. So if you don't like the person standing before you, change it now. Be the person whom you see yourself in the future becoming.

much love, kenzie.

Happiness

In the past year or so, give or take a few months. I have learned so much about myself; I am so beyond grateful for the chance to really understand myself and who I am. I made a promise to myself that I would always make sure that I am my number one priority. I think it is important to make sure that we take care of ourselves and our happiness. I believe that happiness comes from within and it should not be depended on by someone else. I believe whole heartedly that in order for life to be good, we need to take care of ourselves inside and out. When our mental, emotion, and physical health is all combined balanced and equalized, it creates a better life for us to live in. I think it is so important! I can’t say it enough. Now that I have started rambling like an old lady in church, I want to make a little update on me.

I am so happy with life right now, honestly I am. I am happy with the person I have become. I believe myself to be a strong, self-motivated, independent, spontaneous, adventurous, full of laughter and smile kind of person. I wouldn’t be this person, if I hadn’t made the decision to be happy. Take control of my life and make every single second the very best it possibly could be. I am excited for the future and what it has in store for me.

“Look closely at the present you are constructing, It should look like the future you are dreaming.”

– Alice Walker

 I hope everyone has a wonderful Wednesday. Enjoy it.

We half way to Friday,, yippeeee!

Much love, Kenzie.

Hope, Peace, & Love.

Words of Wisdom: Seeds of Hope Foundation.

My family and I are really big into service. We believe that you should always lend a helping hand to someone in need; whether it is near or far. My family has a special place in our heart for the people in Costa Rica. We as a family have been providing different kinds of humanitarian aid projects since I was very young. Last time my parents were in Costa Rica, they came across this foundation called Seeds ofHope. It is a foundation that provides shelter, medical attention, schooling, and other necessary needs for girls who have escaped from human trafficking.

This is the first shelter in the entire country of Costa Rica to supply help of any kind to these kids that have been sexual exploited. And they need our help. The girls who are in the shelter cannot work, because they are under the age of 18. That right you heard me, these girls are under the age of 18 years old. So to collect money they sell these amazing bracelets on their website. Let me tell you, they are beautiful. I have a couple of the bracelets myself, and I wear them all the time. It is a daily reminder that I am helping these girls, and these girls really do need my support.

Anyways,, this foundation is based out Costa Rica, but is ran by a group of people from San Diego, California. They have supplied these girls with a home, 24/7 medical and psychological care, schooling, extra circular activities, vocational and religious studies, transportation, and love. This is the kind of shelter that wants to see these girls grow from the horrible tragedy they have endured, and prosper from this. Grow into beautiful, talented, smart, well educated woman who can concern anything they put their minds too.

So,, please check out their website. I would love to hear that you have donated and bought yourself a bracelet or two, became a monthly partner, or donated in anyway you possibly can . If you would like any information on the project we are doing for them, please just contact me via email kenziespafford@live.com. We plan on making a trip to Costa Rica in May of 2014. We will be supplying these girls with all kinds of wonderful supplies for the daily lives, and for their future success.

Send me a picture of you with your bracelet if you get one. I plan on doing future posts about Seeds of Hope and our journey to help this foundation and these girls.

Much Love, Kenzie.

Where Does Time Go..?

I can’t even believe how much of “my time” is gone once my parents leave town, and I am left to run this business without them. I have so much gratitude for the amount of work that my father puts in each and every day. You never realize how much of an impact one is, until they are gone. I have been such a slacker this week, because any free time I have is spent cleaning or sleeping. I did get to enjoy my Sunday though out on the lake.

One: Couldn't find an opener, so I used a stapler.
Two & Three: Kati and I went to George's on Friday Night. Mojitos and Strawberry Lemonade.
Four & Five: Spend a few hours poolside at the Marriott.
Six: The girls at Sand Hollow on Sunday.
Seven & Eight & Nine: Wake Surfing. Ashton, Ashton & Levi, and Myself.

 

 I love how everyone on instagram is doing this transformation Tuesday. I think it’s adorable to put an old picture of you, and a new picture of you. See where you have come from, to where you are now!

Wednesday Words of Wisdom:

Motivation: is a psychological feature that is considered to give a human a drive or force toward a goal. Motivation is the purpose or psychological cause of an action. Motivation may be rooted in a basic impulse to optimize well-being, minimize physical pain and maximize pleasure.

Last Thursday I was sitting in Rotary listening to our speaker, as he went on about what drives you. It really got me thinking, What motivates you to do what you do every single day?

Do you get the motivation from the money you will receive once you have reached your goals? Do you get the motivation from the face you will be learning and gaining knowledge, and the fact to understand the truth behind something? Do get the motivation from the people who surround you? Do you get the motivation from the end result being nice things, surroundings, clothing, and life-fulfillment?  Do you get the motivation from the control and power you will have over your own destiny? Do you get the motivation from fact that you will live life to a set standard?

Motivation has roots from where it comes from; it can be single factor or a group of factors. Each one has its pros and cons; and each will help you reach the goal you have a desire to reach. So what is your motivation for life, work, and adventure? I know that I am a Dry Cleaning Manager because I desire the knowledge to know more about the service I will supply to my community, and the self growth it will give me as an end result. So my drive for work is knowledge, social/people, and power/individual. My desire for life is to help others, create a life for myself and my family, and leave a legacy in which they can follow. So my motivation for life would be social/people, power/individual, and aesthetic. My desire to live life to fullest is to create my own adventures and include those whom I love, my fellow peers, on the adventures I will have in my life. My motivation for adventure in life is individual and social.

Set goal for yourself, because when you finally reach them; it is the best feeling in this entire world. Knowing that something you once set your mind too, is in your grasp, and you have achieved it.

Go out there and get it. Put your mind to it, and achieve it!

Have a wonderful day everyone.

Much Love, Kenzie

Words of Wisdom : Courage

Courage: the ability and willingness to confront fear, pain, danger, uncertainty, or intimidation. Physical courage is the courage in the face of physical pain, hardship, death, or threat of death, while moral courage is the ability to act rightly in the face of popular opposition, shame, scandal, or discouragement.

Christopher Peterson and Martin Seligman’s book Character Strengths and Virtues, defines that there are 6 key virtues that defines a human’s strength; Knowledge and Wisdom, Courage, Humanity, Justice, Temperance, and Transcendence. Courage is broken down into 4 main categories;  Bravery, Perseverance, Honesty, and Zest.

Bravery: the ability to stand up for what is right in difficult situations. Perseverance: the ability to seek a goal in spite of obstacles. Honesty: simply telling the truth. Zest: (or vitality) is the feeling of being alive, full of zest, and displaying enthusiasm.

In my eyes courage can be such a difficult thing to confront when you are faced with it. The ability to stand up for yourself, your beliefs, your family, or whatever it may be; can be such a difficult situation. I have come to the realization in my life, that in the past I rarely stood up for myself when I really wanted to please someone. I let my own feelings sit to the side and I became someone who I didn’t want to be; all because I didn’t have the courage to kick something in the butt at the very beginning. Looking back now, I wish I would have been strong enough to believe in myself and stand my ground. In the end it would of only helped me, put me in a place where I was happy with the decisions I made.

I have made a decision with myself; to have the courage to stand my ground and never back down. Backing down doesn’t mean that I will never come to agreement with someone, and compromise; but it means that I will let my voice be heard. I believe if we all did that, we would all be so much happier.

Playing A Lil Catch Up!

Hello Readers/Followers,

I am sorry for being MIA so much on the blog lately. I have had such a crazy schedule with trying to send my parents off to Costa Rica that I haven’t had any time to myself. Therefore I don’t have time to do all the blogging that I would like. I will be playing a little catch up today. Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday will all be featured in one post. I will apologize in advance for the length of it,, it may be long.

Tuesday: Talk on The Block

The Bachelorette

That’s right it was the Finale, and Des is Engaged; too CHRIS!

Personally I think it is the best decision. Even though I liked Brooks, I don’t think he was as far along in the journey of their relationship as Des was. Chris is everything that Des has been wanting the entire season. I think Chris will make Des happy forever! Happy Engagement to Des and Chris!

 Dunn Dunn… and the Big News.. Ladies and Gents.

The Next Bachelor… Juan Pablo.!

Where can I sign up,,? Can you say yummy?!

Wednesday: Words of Wisdom

I have learned so much about myself in such a short period of time this past 6 months. I know that I should always stand up for myself, my beliefs, and my future. I should stand strong in my own shoes, because I should be comfortable enough to be who I am; at all times. I never want to try and be someone else, just because that is what someone else expects of me. I am myself for a reason; uniqueness is beauty in every form.

Thursday: Throwing it Back.

 Lake Days with My Bestie!

p.s. I have to give a shout out to Kati. I am so very proud of this girl right here! She has reached her 18 month mark of sobriety, and it is an amazing accomplishment. She is such an inspiration to me! Such a strong and beautiful young woman she is.!

Words of Wisdom Wednesday : Friendship

{Sometimes you put walls up not to keep people out,

but to see who cares enough to break them down.}

Friendship: a relationship of mutual affection between two or more people. Friendship is a stronger from of interpersonal bond than an association. A World Happiness Database study found that people with close friendships are happier.

Childhood friendships were about toys, and family creating playtime. We grow older and once we become Adolescence the people we surround ourselves with are those who act the same, are into the same activities, or friends that we grew up with. Adulthood; graduation, marriage, parenthood, and careers can drift apart some of those friendship that you thought were so strong. The time in life that vulnerabilities and quirks mark or break friendships. This though is the time, when true Friendship Bonds occur and your term “Friends for Life” really comes into play. Old Age hits us faster than we expect and responsibilities become less and less, pressures of the world seem a little less significant; friendship is what you have to lean on. Friendship is important for a person’s well-being. Sometimes there are just those times when you need nothing more than a friend.

ADULTHOOD

 

 

 

 

Even though we’ve changed and we’re all finding our own place in the world, we all know that when the tears fall or the smile spread across our face, we’ll come to each other because no matter where this crazy world takes us, nothing will ever change so much to the point where we’re not all still friends.

much love, kenzie.

Words of Wisdom Wednesday : Life of No Regrets

Today’s Topic: Live a Life of No Regrets

Photo Credit: Ralph Turner

As I sat here pondering what I wanted to write about for my Words of Wisdom Wednesday, I kept thinking about something I had come across just recently. “The best advice I ever received? Simple: Have no regrets. Who gave me the advice? Mum’s the word.” – Richard Branson, Founder of Virgin Group. I really have started living by that, because I never want to wake up one day and regret that I simple did or didn’t do what I wanted. Branson also said in that interview, “If you asked every person in the world who gave them their best advice, it is a safe bet that most would say it was their mother. I am no exception. My mother has taught me many valuable lessons that have helped shaped my life. But having no regrets stand out above all others, because it has informed every aspect of my life and every business decision we have ever made.”

I started thinking about my past, and where it has leaded me too at this point in my life. I am who I am because of it, but I also wouldn’t be where I am if I didn’t learn from mistakes I made in it. I want to never regret the decisions I make or have made; as long as I learn from them, how can I? When everything went south with my last relationship, and I loved home. I found these steps on line, and I personally really like them. How To Live Life With No Regrets. It as simple as the following 13 steps.

 1) Forgive yourself. Everyone makes terrible choices and past mistakes. You can only try to repair and/or learn from them.

2) Start with your relationships. All the people in your life have something to teach you. Take one person in your life at a time and make a list of what they can educate you in. For example, your grandfather might teach you about history or the stock market or football. Your mother could teach you about cooking or some other interest. Even if what they know does not interest you-take the time and try to learn from everyone. Value them.

3) Make sure the people in your life know how much you care and love them. Tell them and show it to them in different ways.

4) Appreciate what you have. Write down 10 gifts (not material things) that you have been given. Post it somewhere you can see it every day.

5) Change any habits that hurt your body. Consuming too much sugar and fat in food, alcohol, drugs and lack of exercise and sleep will slowly kill you. When you are young, it is hard to understand how it can catch up to you when you are older. But it will. Count on it.

6) Stop if you have been abusive, dishonest, neglectful or cruel to any person or animal. Stop. Make amends. It takes a strong person to say "I am sorry, forgive me." However, if the person wants nothing to do with you, back away and write them a letter to beg forgiveness. Healing takes time. They might never want to deal with you again but at least you were responsible for your past actions.

7) Realize that life is messy and it is better to be open to change. You will be a happier and more relaxed human being.

8) Focus more on relationships and interests and less on material things. If you spend your whole life worrying about your appearance or material goods, there will be deep regrets on what you did not pay attention to in life.

9)Remember to avoid giving your time to people or activities that are worthless in the long run. If you are in an abusive relationship - get out. If you can't get out-report them to other people or the law. You are wasting your life so try to go towards people and activities that make you feel fulfilled and happy.

10)Spend as much time with your children as you can. Buying them (your children) things is not the same as just hanging out with them. Pay attention to the small things that they like. Try to accept them as the valuable people that they are.

11) Wishing for what might have been is silly. Accept what you have and be grateful.

12)Treat your mate in life like gold. Even your Ex, Don't fight over money as relationships are more important.

13)Realize that the world is made to fit all types of people, and everybody has a place somewhere to make a change. To start looking for a tomorrow, you must forget the past. The reasons are more important than the events. When you fight for your happiness, nothing can get in the way.

Now I realize that not all of these fit into my life right now, but I believe they will at some point in my life. When they fit into my life, I will be grateful that I have these guidelines to help me through life. (If you read the steps on the internet, you will see the I have fixed some of the grammar, whoever put it on the webpage obviously didn’t have spell check.. Yikes!)

So my question to YOU is this; “Are you living A Life of No Regrets?”

Next question; what is the Best Advice You've Received?

I really do want to hear from you Readers and Followers…

Cause, I would love to post about the best advice you've received.

Much Love, Kenzie.

Words of Wisdom Wednesday: Success

Succeed: To accomplish something desired or intended.

Motivation: is a psychological feature that arouses an organism to act towards a desired goal and elicits, controls, and sustains certain goal-directed behaviors. It can be considered a driving force; a psychological one that compels or reinforces an action toward a desired goal.

Motivation in my mind is an inner drive to go after what you want in your life.

For those who don’t know me personally; I am a self driven, highly motivated, work driven person. I was brought up to understand that what you want in life will not just be given to you on a silver platter. You will have to rise each and every day, accomplish your goals, and work hard. It was instilled into my head that if you want something in your life; go for it, fight for it, and work for it; until you have it. Nothing will bring you greater happiness, then the happiness you will receive knowing that you are where you are in your life, because you did everything in your power to get there. Life may not be easy, hell it may horrible at times, but when you have the motivation to succeed; you will accomplish anything that you put your mind too. So decide right now. What do you want out of your life? Make a plan, start with something small you can do, and those small “steps” will eventually get you to where you want to be in your life. Just think of the smile on your face, when you have arrived at your destination. It will truly be an amazing day in which you can celebrate the path in which got you to your destination.

I hope everyone has a wonderful Wednesday, enjoy you Hump Day.!

Much Love, Kenzie.

Words of Wisdom Wednesday

Words of Wisdom Wednesday

“Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, or worn.

It is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace & gratitude.”

 - Denis Waitley

When we first talked to each other
I knew we would always be friends.
Our friendship has kept on growing
And I'll be here for you to the end.

You listen when I have a problem
And help dry the tears from my face.
You take away my sorrow
And put happiness in its place.

We can't forget the fun we've had
Laughing 'til our faces turn blue.
Talking of things only we find funny
People think we're insane-If they only knew!

I guess this is my way of saying thanks
For catching me when I fall.
Thanks once again for being such a good friend
And being here with me through it all.

- Rachel Ellis

“Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.” - Joshua J. Marine

Words of Wisdom Wednesday

I believe in this saying so much. You will never be able to steer the way another person will be able to treat you, but you will always be able to steer the way that you will react to how that person treats you. Always stand up for yourself, never let someone put you down for your feeling or opinions. They are yours for a reason, because they are your feelings and your personal opinions. Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs. Always make sure you react to the way someone comes at you, in a way you will be happy looking back at. Hope everyone has a wonderful Wednesday.. Kenzie.

Words of Wisdom Wednesday : Encouragement



Good Morning.! Happy Wednesday.! This Wednesday I am going to post a story that I am sure most of you have read at least a time or two. I just love this story though; to me it is so much more than just an old man with encouragement for the man on the other side of the room. It is a story of hope, wonder, and happiness. I would love to hear what you guys think about the story, and if you have any stories that you think are like this one. Hope you all have a happy hump day.

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room’s only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.

Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.

Although the other man couldn’t hear the band – he could see it. In his mind’s eye as the gentleman by th! e window portrayed it with descriptive words.

Days and weeks passed.

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.

He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.

It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window

The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.

She said, “Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.”

Author Unknown

Words of Wisdom Wednesday: You could miss it!

{Words of Wisdom Wednesday}

So I came across this quote on the web while I was bored at work on Saturday. I have every intention of making this Words of Wednesday very meaningful. “Life moves pretty fast; if you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.” Then it hit me. This is perfect. If you think about it, how many of us just go about our days without really stopping and enjoying what is around us. Taking in the beauty of this world, enjoying the sunshine, the smell of spring in the air, the sounds of kids playing outside, and the birds sings their beautiful songs. This is a collection of pictures that I am glad I took. It makes me remember the beauty of what is around us each and everyday.

“Life moves pretty fast; if you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.”

I honestly have the best family and friends a girl could ask for.

One: Little cousins Maddie and Brynn, just adore these two girls

Two: Brie, one of the little munchkins I have nannied for a long time. I love her to death, and loved watching her grow up. She loves her Kenzie.

Three: Family may not be blood, but they are the ones who are there through it all. I have loved having Torie back in our lives! She's a Hottie Tottie. Kati: Through it all, we always have been there. Your are the Anchor that keeps my Feet on the Ground, You are the Wind that keeps my Heart in the Clouds. p.s. we are getting that tattoo.! Levi: They say that sibling can be best friends or worst enemies. I sure am glad your my best friend, my protector, and my partner in crime. Love you buddy. P.S. Girls He is SINGLE!

Four: I love having a Best Friend who doesn't want to go without you. Nothing is better than knowing that you will always be there for each other, through thick and thin. You always want your Best Friend to be there for everything. (future hubby: keep that in mind)

I am very fortunate to have grown up being able to travel to different countries and see the difference in culture that are in this world. It has made me appreciate what I have at home, and work hard for the things I want. Such simple things, are true treasures to other people.

One: Virgina Beach Pier

Two: Lake Powell

Three: Dominical, Costa Rica

Four: Monkies at Colonial Pacifico Manuel Antonio, Costa Rica

Five: Flower in the Rainforest/Mountain terrain above the city of Quepos, Costa Rica

I challenge you to start to take a look each day at the things that surroud you and/or places you've been. Write a post, and comment on this one. I want to see what you wouldn't want to miss in your life.!

Until Next Time.

Much Love, Kenzie.

Happiness, is it in your pocket.?

Happy Hump Day Everyone..
Its that time again for Wednesday Words of Wisdom..

Todays Topic.
Happiness.

so grab the button on the side and write a little note.

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I recently learned something very important, and really took it too heart. When you aren't happy with life, and happiness isn't easy for you each day. You need to look at your life and start eliminating the negative things in which are bring you down. If there are friends who don't make you feel like your true self, maybe its time to move on and find some new ones. If your love life doesn't make you happy, truly happy, then its time to let that person go. If you need to make a change of life so that you are happy day to day, do it. Once you are happy, your world seems so much lighter and brighter. Things will start to fall into place, and you will realize your smiling more often just because you can. Change happens
for a reason in our lives. We have to learn to let things go, so greater things can take place within our hearts. We have to understand that bad things will happen in our lives, because it will make us appreciate when the good things are there to stay. So do something for me. Make yourself happy. If you seems a little down, take some me time and do what you want to do. Smile because you just want too. Enjoy life, it goes by way to fast. It will be over in a blink of the eye. Today will be gone and we will be faced with the thoughts of yesterday. Tomorrow I am going to text someone who makes me smile, get a raspberry lime aid and a sugar cookie because I can, and maybe do a little shopping. All because I know happiness is worth pursuing and making it present in my everyday life. Happiness guys. Its worth having in your lives. Smile, and have a good day.! Much Love, Kenzie.

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